Wednesday, June 1, 2011


This is a fun list Stacey posted and I had to pass it along too. Introverts unite!

Ten Myths About Introverts

Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.
This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.

Yup! I'm horrible at small talk- I'll take awkward silence any day! 

Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.
Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.

So true! I can close off any open-ended question. If anything feels forced I check out. But I love people, and I'm definitely not afraid of them (most of them, anyway)!

Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.
Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.

Agree with the first two statements. I don't feel pressure to fit in though- it is exhausting feeling that way, which is why I don't. 

Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.
On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.

Yes, yes, yes!

Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.
Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.

I 100% agree with all of the above. I always thought there was something 'wrong' with me for being this way growing up!

Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.
Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.  

SO true. I'm never bored being alone. I feel distracted in group settings. Which is part of the reason meeting new people is hard for me. I like to focus in and have a more personal connection, and there is usually a lot going on- too much- when I'm introduced to people- for meaningful contact.

Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.
Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.

That's me- except I wear my weirdness on my sleeve proudly!

Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.
Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.

Yes! Absorb, analyze, reflect, repeat.

Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.
Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.

True, although being raised with two younger sisters and five younger brothers plus a whole passel of cousins probably desensitized me to crowds and noise just a bit!

Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.
A world without Introverts would be a world with few scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers, and philosophers. That being said, there are still plenty of techniques an Extrovert can learn in order to interact with Introverts. (Yes, I reversed these two terms on purpose to show you how biased our society is.) Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ.

Well, there you go. *smug* (My little sis Andrea and her BFF say *smug* like that all the time and it makes me giggle)

Stacey read it on Elaine's blog, and it was originally posted here by Carl King.

I Love Carl's way of looking at it:

' “You cannot escape us, and to change us would lead to your demise.” -- I made that up. I'm a screenwriter. '

1 comment:

  1. im assuming youve taken the myers briggs personality thingy?? im ESFP... whats yours? we should make everyone at work take it haha. we did that at my last job, it was really fun.


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